You're frustrated.
Every night you go to bed with a rock in your gut and a shadow over your shoulders. It’s guilt.
It whispers terrible, haunting things to you. Maybe it says, “Your best isn’t good enough,” or “Your child is going to grow up and hate you.” or “Why can’t stop losing your cool?” or “You’re a bad mom.”
You go check on your sleeping child - now breathing evenly, chubby cheeks relaxed, lashes fluttering softly - and your heart melts. Why can’t you just be the parent you want to be? Your child deserves better than this.
You go to bed.
The next morning, you wake up and think, “I’m going to do better. I must do better. Today is a new day.” And then you walk right into the same challenges you did yesterday with the same old discipline toolkit.
Screeching, throwing, hitting, ignoring you, refusing to cooperate…these are common behaviors for young children!
But - trust me - they don't want to behave like this either.
They want to feel peaceful, joyful. Just like you!
However, unlike an adult, your child's immature brain is not able to quickly find reasonable solutions to issues. So they resort to the only ways they know will work to get your attention. And boy do they get it!
So what's a frazzled parent to do?
Yell? 😬
Send them to time-out? 😔
Take away their toys? 😢
Lock oneself in the bathroom? 😣
Hey… I'm not judging. Parenting is tough! It's hard to keep your wits about you when your child is acting irrationally. I've been guilty of all of the above strategies when I'm feeling stressed out. However, the latest brain research on child development clearly tells us that they aren't the best for your child's long-term emotional health.
Many people believe that stricter parenting = better behaved kids. Like if we’re just firmer and less tolerant our children will stop doing the thing that frustrates us.
And it’s kind of true. You can get any behavior to stop by intimidating your child. After all, you are bigger and stronger and will be for years and years.
The problem is that children who are raised with a very strict, authoritarian approach tend to end up more depressed, less resilient, and with lower self esteem. They have difficulty expressing their feelings and are more likely to act aggressively when cornered. None of us want that for our sweet children!
But there is a better way to handle these issues - a kinder, more loving approach that is a MILLION TIMES more effective and healthier in the long run.
We're talking “emotionally healthy and resilient in adulthood” kind of effective. Powerful stuff!
This Loving Discipline course will help you find the calm in your approach to discipline so that you can help your child learn to control and manage their emotional states. Not only will your child’s behavior improve with consistent use of these techniques, you will feel less stressed and ready to celebrate the joys of parenthood.
What if the next time your child had a meltdown, you...
remained firmly in control
stopped asking the internet for advice - you used your own loving toolkit instead.
didn’t need rewards, praise, or time-outs to get your child to cooperate.
felt proud of your approach to discipline
said goodbye to guilt and shame
Inside the Loving Discipline course, you’ll get a framework that will help you stop fighting your child’s behavior and start teaching them instead.
You’ll see the challenges of parenting young children in a healthier, happier light.
Doesn't that sound better? It's not so far-fetched!
The Path to Loving Discipline
6 Heart-Centered Strategies
Unlimited Access for 1 Year
Over 3 Hours of Video
Montessori-Aligned Techniques
Printable Learning Journal
Self-Paced Experience
This is NOT for you if…
You want “nip it in the bud” solutions
You expect blind obedience, not collaboration.
You think children should demonstrate respect to you at all times just because you are an adult, regardless of how they feel.
If you want quick fixes, you’re going to need to go elsewhere because real discipline is about healthy relationships, and we are not in the business of controlling children. We want to help them.
This IS for you if…
You’re looking for genuine, gentle discipline - none of that “go to time-out for 5 minutes” or “I’ll throw away your toy” junk
You’re exhausted of the feelings of inadequacy.
You’re willing to go the extra mile - to do the work to truly help your child.
If this sounds like you, then the Loving Discipline course is going to feel like the perfect fit.
Hi! I'm Aubrey, a Montessorian and mom of two.
I'm the author of two parenting books: Baby's First Year Milestones and Toddler Discipline for Every Age and Stage.
As a lifelong Montessorian, I am passionate about respectful child development. I’ve centered my professional career on supporting independence, strengthening relationships, and nurturing a love for learning.
As a parent, I’ve had all the ups and downs myself! I understand intimately the need for a sympathetic ear and fresh perspective during those rough moments. I am centered on creating and maintaining a personal parenting philosophy molded to the unique needs of the whole family.
I want to help you become the nurturing, confident parent your heart is yearning for, and I’m cheering you on as you make these changes a permanent part of your life.
Parenting with confidence is a collaborative experience. Let’s find the power of LOVE together. I hope you join me in the Loving Discipline course!
6 highly effective LOVE-FOCUSED discipline techniques
Why limits provide children with security and when to use them
How to forgive yourself for your parenting mistakes
When you join, you’ll get immediate access to the entire self-paced course. First, you’ll download a Learning Journal (workbook) to help you make the most of the experience. And then you’ll simply follow the instructions within and watch the pre-recorded videos in order.
Every single video will have an action step for you to practice at home with your child so that you truly internalize the lessons, and then you’ll reflect on your experience and practice the techniques that feel the most respectful for your child’s personality.
I’ll also be sending some encouragement your way as you work through the course.
How It Works
1. Complete your enrollment.
2. Log into the member dashboard and enter the Loving Discipline course.
3. Download the Learning Journal and get started as soon as you like!
4. Start disciplining your child with love and respect TODAY!
FAQ
Who is the Loving Discipline course for?
This course is for parents who want to use a loving, respectful discipline approach to help their children feel safe, secure, and loved.
What age should my child be?
These techniques work for all ages, but I had ages 1 year to 6 in mind when creating the course.
How long do I have access?
When you sign up, you will have access to this course for 1 year.
Is content Live or pre-recorded?
All content in this course is pre-recorded. You can watch immediately!
Is this course the same as your book?
No, the content in the Loving Discipline course is not a repeat of my book, Toddler Discipline for Every Age and Stage. You’ll find the same gentle, respectful tone, but the content is entirely new.
Will having a copy of your book help me in the course?
The content of Toddler Discipline for Every Age and Stage would be complementary to the information in this course. A great companion guide but not essential.
Do you offer refunds?
Due to the digital nature of this program, all sales are final.
Is this course the same as the Loving Discipline workshop I attended already?
The content will be similar to the workshop I used to give, but the workshop was 1 hour - I have added 2 additional hours of pre-recorded content and fleshed it out as a full course.
Is this course self-paced?
Yes it is! YOU decide how quickly you’d like to pace yourself through. You can watch all the videos at once or spread it out.
